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The Pillars for Resilience and Leadership: A Journey Rooted in Tradition

From Sweetgrass First Nation, I’ve traveled a path steeped in history, resilience, and wisdom. Today, I stand before you not just as an individual but as a conduit for teachings passed down through generations of my ancestors. These lessons—stories told beside elders—form the foundation of four key pillars that have helped me and others persevere through life’s inevitable challenges.

The Legacy of Resilience

The pillars I share today originate long before my time, carried forward through the oral traditions of my ancestors. In my role as a helper in ceremonies back home, I’ve come to understand that wisdom flows through stories. Today, I bring those stories to you, hoping they resonate with your journey.

Finding Strength Amid Hardship

As a child, my family faced the realities of moving from the reserve to the city. Those transitions were not just geographical but emotional and cultural, marked by hardship and adaptation. I recall my mother, Inez, who did the best she could with what she had, embodying resilience that has left an indelible mark on me.

My great-grandfather, born in the 1800s during a time of great upheaval for Indigenous peoples, was forced to leave his home due to conflict and repression. His journey, and that of my Kookum (grandmother), serves as a testament to perseverance. Despite being stripped of opportunities, they held onto hope and passed that hope down through generations.

Understanding Our “Why”

It’s easy to lose sight of our purpose during life’s most challenging moments. Whether it’s behind a counter, on the frontlines, or in personal life, we are often unaware of the strength and leadership others see in us. Each of us is a changemaker, even if we don’t recognize it in the moment.

I ask you to reflect on your own story: the obstacles you’ve overcome to be here today and the sacrifices made by those who came before you. These reflections remind us of our “why” and help anchor us in our purpose.

Healing and Supporting Each Other

Childhood memories shape who we are and how we handle adversity. My earliest recollections are of challenges—alcoholism, domestic violence, and poverty on the reserve. My mother’s decision to leave and take us to women’s shelters was the beginning of a new chapter. Those years taught me that healing begins with self-reflection, seeking support, and breaking cycles.

Life’s hardships are not meant to be endured in isolation.

Looking Forward

As we part ways, I urge you to carry forward the wisdom and resilience of those who came before us. Think about not only where you’ve been but where you aspire to go. Each of us holds the power to create ripple effects of change—personally, professionally, and in our communities.

You are here for a reason. You are a leader, a healer, a source of wisdom for those who look up to you. Remember your “why,” and let it guide you through even the most difficult times. Together, through the power of shared stories and collective support, we can move forward with purpose and strength.

 

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