Kendal's Blog

The Home Fire

When you walk through the door, leave work at work. Your spouse, partner, or significant other may support you wholeheartedly, but home is not the place to unload all your professional challenges. While occasional sharing can strengthen bonds, leaning too heavily on your family for work-related matters can create stress and disrupt the peace of your personal life.

Instead, focus on making home:

  • A Place for Family: Prioritize quality time, meaningful conversations, and shared activities that strengthen your relationships.
  • A Space to Recharge: Allow yourself and your family the mental rest needed to stay energized and focused.
  • A Haven of Support: Offer each other encouragement without overburdening your loved ones with work pressures.

Build a Professional Community

To avoid taking work challenges home, channel your energy into a professional community where you can share ideas, brainstorm, and grow.

  • Peer Groups: Seek out groups of individuals at your level, such as leadership circles or professional organizations, where you can discuss work-related topics.
  • Executive Networks: For those at higher levels, consider joining executive groups to connect with leaders from other companies who face similar challenges.
  • Regular Meetups: Establish regular check-ins with like-minded professionals to exchange insights and share strategies in a supportive environment.

Learning from Athletics

In my time as an athlete, I discovered the power of stepping outside my comfort zone to grow. One pivotal moment taught me the importance of leaning on the right community for growth. Just as athletes push themselves by training with others who share their drive and discipline, business leaders and professionals thrive when they surround themselves with individuals who challenge and inspire them.

By engaging with others in your field—or even in unrelated industries—you gain fresh perspectives and innovative ideas to apply to your work.


The Benefits of Boundaries and Community

Separating work from home and joining a professional community brings benefits to all areas of your life:

  • Clarity: You’ll approach work challenges with a fresh perspective after recharging at home.
  • Growth: Conversations with peers and mentors will expand your skills and insights.
  • Happiness: Maintaining peace and balance at home leads to healthier relationships and a greater sense of fulfillment.

Final Thoughts

Remember, your home is a place of refuge, not a second boardroom. Protect its purpose by establishing clear boundaries between your personal and professional life. At the same time, nurture your professional growth by finding a community where you can share, learn, and grow.

Whether you’re an athlete, an entrepreneur, or an executive, the key to success lies in knowing when to focus on work and when to focus on home—and having the right people in each area to support you.

Take the time to build a community of peers for your professional journey while cherishing the sanctuary of your home life. Balance is the ultimate key to both personal happiness and professional success.

 

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